With
Valentine’s Day fast approaching it can be hard to ignore the signs everywhere,
from love inspired gifts and cards adorning shops to talk of Valentines on
social media, hinting at the impending day of romance when love is in the air.
For
some people the day can be one they dread, some people are passionately
anti-valentines, others enjoy a Galentine night in with the girls, whilst many
loved up couples enjoy the day to its fullest by sharing gifts with their loved
ones and having romantic time together.
Having
experienced the dread of valentines whilst single as well as having enjoyed the
excitement of the love-filled day when in the first sparks of a relationship, I
have experienced both sides to the day – the tear-filled, single and lonely
side of dread and the romantic, loved-up side.
Now
that I am in a relationship I thankfully no longer experience the feeling of
being single and lonely on Valentine’s Day when it feels as if the whole world
around you is loved-up. But whilst I have enjoyed special and romantic
Valentine’s days with Lee after years together and a child the day for us has
changed from a day of being in a romantic bubble together, going out to celebrate
the day and giving each other trinkets of love and Valentine’s cards to a day
where we simply appreciate each and are thankfully that we have each other.